TAK AKAN ADA CINTA YANG LAIN

Haruskah ku ulangi lagi
Kata cintaku padamu
Yakinkan dirimu
Masihkah terlintas di dada
Keraguanmu itu
Susahkan hatimu

Tak akan ada cinta yang lain
Pastikan cintaku hanya untukmu
Pernahkah terbersit olehmu
Aku pun takut kehilangan... Dirimu

Ingatkah satu bait kenangan
Cerita cinta kita
Tak mungkin terlupa
Buang semua angan mulukmu itu
Percaya takdir kita
Aku cinta padamu

Akankah nanti
Terulang lagi
Jalinan cinta semu
Dengar bisikku
Bukalah mata hatimu...

p/s:
hari-hari terakhir merindui..
hehehe

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

Alhamdulillah..hidup lagi harini..

hari2 terakhir pengaduanku..harapnya lepas nie tak dah..hehe

harini rasa sebak sikit..tatau nape..

maybe rasa diri nie tak cukup gagah..

lemah..

tak bisa nak merempuh kehidupan hari mendatang...

arghhh...

sifat biasa biasa seorang manusia..

sbb aku bukan tuhan..

pasti punya rasa yang begitu..

wanna move on...always dear..always..

that's what i wanna you & me do..

kalu jadi 'pencinta' ibarat leonardo di caprio dlm titanic..

MY HEART WILL GO ON - CELINE DION

Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you,
That is how I know you go on

Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And youre here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go till were gone

Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life well always go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And youre here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Youre here, theres nothing I fear,
And I know that my heart will go on
Well stay forever this way
You are safe in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

p/s :

always see you in my dreams & my heart..
i know you are happy now..
wanna you move on :)

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

This sweet morning,alhamdulillah i got this cute msg from ulfah on facebook saying that :

"Amad..tgk muka amad..u seemed to be in some situation..whatever pun..Moga Amad ok orait :)"

hahaha...ulfah dah pandai tafsir muka eh sekarang...

and after that kak sya ingatkan saya pada lagu utama + nyawa saya skrg

Ku Berlari by Firdaus

ku langkahkan kaki ini
dihangat mentari pagi
kusyukuri hari ini
aku masih berdiri

dan aku tinggalkan masa kelabu
dan lalu mulakan jalannya kernaMU
semangat optimis diri
jalan hari dgn pasti
selama jantung berdentak
selama itu pun takkan berhenti
berlari wujudkan mimpi
terus berlari
hargai hidup kini bererti

terjatuh bangkit aku kembali
susah payah aku tak peduli
kerna hidupku hanya sekali

dengarkanlah teman seloka hiburan
tak perlulah kita asyik nak berlawan
kita semua kawan tak boleh berlawan
kalu kita renggang kita ketinggalan
bebaskan dirimu dari dibelenggu
teruskanlahmu ayuh kita maju
mari bersamaku nyanyi lagu ini
jangan difikirkan rasa yang di hati
semua itu hanya dimindamu
tak perlu kau sangsi tak perlu kau ragu
segala2nya pastikan berlalu
mentarikan muncul mendungkan berlalu

suka duka perkara biasa
kita pasti lalu
bezanya hanya pada waktu
bila berlari kenalah berstrategi
jangan ikut hati
ikut hati nnt mati
biarlah terlambat atur jalan cermat
pelan2 kayuh jangan sampai otak penat
sentiasa bawa diri
hati2
hari2
beri erti pada diri

jangan berhenti kejar mimpi senyuman diberi
tanpa semua benci menghantui hati
biarkan saja takdir semua nyata
bersyukurlahlah masih lagi bernyawa

dan aku tinggalkan
masa kelabu

takkan berhenti
berlari wujudkan mimpi
terus berlari
hargai hidup kini bererti

p/s :

buatmu yang saya syg..hehehe
semua saya syg2 sgt dgn cara yang berbeda
ada yang mengerti
ada yang memarahi
ada yang membenci
tak kira la pape pun kamu nak buat
ngertilah
saya tetap syg kamu

i gonna move on
i promise
puteh - doakan jawapannya akan berubah nnt.that's what you always want
cah - saya nak kamu bahagia
ma - i'll always here for you.sy yang sentiasa blajar utk mengerti & mberi
su - yati chat?hahaha..jgn lupa mkn on time su

sampai masa saya akan pergi..
wujudkan mimpi optimis pada diri

insyaallah :)

AKULAH KEKASIHMU

Sudah berapa lama aku tak ketemu dia..
Rindu mungkin padanya..
Gambarnya pun aku tak ingat dah mana aku simpan..
Tapi yang pasti kami semua masih punya kenangan dengannya
Zaem Ar-zaman...

Lagu2nya pasti sentiasa dalam ingatan kami
Esp kalu pi 'melalak' kat redbox..hehehe

nie lagu fav dia..
doakan moga dia sentiasa happy & hidup comel sokmo..

AKULAH KEKASIHMU by AXL'S

Itukah dia kekasih yang pernah berjanji
Memberi cinta untukmu sepenuh hati
Ia akan menyesal suatu hari nanti
Apabila ia mengetahui
Kekasihmu ini ingin kembali

Tahukah engkau ia tak sepadan denganmu
Walau beribu bisik pujuknya merayu
Kekasihmu ini terlalu ingin kembali
Sejak ia mengetahui
Kekasihmu itu selalu membuat kau bersedih

( korus )
Oh kekasihmu ini akan merasa gembira
Andai dapat bersama untuk selama-lama
Hanya untuk menyayangimu
Hanya untuk bercinta lagi
Andai engkau berduka
Aku yang pertama di sisi
Andai engkau bahagia
Akukan terus berdoa
Semoga suatu masa
Pintu hatimukan terbuka
Dan kita akan kembali
Bercinta lagi

Aku akan kembali
Walau jalan berliku
Kernaku kekasihmu
Hingga ke akhir hayat

p/s:

LIRIK DIA TAK LEH BLAH..HE
TAPI MENDALAM MAKSUDNYA..

7 hari lagi..mampukah saya?
huhu..
mudahkan jalanku ya ALLAH..
izinkan aku ya ALLAH

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

Nothing much to say except.....

Thanks...

To puteh,cah,jelita & soya...

For demonstrated to me

Bahawa hidup ini

tak boleh sendirian

tak boleh fikirkan diri sendiri

perlu sentiasa memberi

perlu menyayangi selebih2nya

perlu memaafi setiap masa

jgn membenci

tq very much..

for demostrating the hadith of the prophet...

"tak beriman seseorang itu sehingga dia menyayangi seseorang lebih dari dia mengasihi dirinya"

p/s:

masanya hampir tiba...
8 days to go..

CINTA PERTAMA

Kau cinta pertamaku
Kau cinta terakhirku
Tiada apa yang bisa
Menafikan kasih kita

Kau ayu di mataku
Satu antara seribu
Tiada tara di dunia

Mungkin kan terputus di tengah jalan
Mungkin kan terlerai tanpa ikatan
Usah ragu dengan takdir

Kau ayu di mataku
Satu antara seribu
Tiada tara di dunia

Mungkin kita kan berbeza haluan
Berakhirnya cerita percintaan
Segalanya ketentuan Tuhan

p/s:

aiman nyanyi lagu nie penuh dgn perasaan..
menusuk kalbu..kui3
best + suka :)

ADUHAI...

Khamis, 03 Disember 2009 (HARIAN METRO)






AMPANG: Hancur luluh hati seorang lelaki apabila kebahagiaan berpanjangan yang diharapkan selepas dua minggu bergelar raja sehari lebur apabila isteri kesayangannya tiba-tiba lesap selepas didakwa melarikan diri bersama ‘jantan’ lain yang dikatakan pernah menjadi kekasihnya dulu.

Lebih menyayat hati apabila suami berkenaan, Nor Mohamad Sham Maidin Sah, 39, yang inai di jarinya masih merah apabila mendapat berita isterinya ditangkap khalwat di rumah lelaki terbabit, beberapa hari selepas wanita itu melarikan diri dari rumah.

Malah, kisah menyayat hati itu boleh diibaratkan ‘tangisan bulan madu’ apabila Nor Mohamad belum berkesempatan mengenali hati budi isterinya, apatah lagi untuk bermesra dengan wanita yang baru 13 hari menaiki pelamin bersamanya.

Nor Mohamad berkata, kehilangan orang kesayangannya itu menyebabkan dia hampir pitam kerana tidak menyangka isterinya, Noor Sharmaine Mat Esa, 20, sanggup meninggalkannya tanpa pesan.

p/s: aiyak..kesiannya..huhu

teringat lagu yang Anang Hermansyah tujukan buat Krisdayanti

Lagu “Separuh Jiwaku Pergi”
Artis “Anang Hermansyah”

Separuh Jiwaku Pergi
Memang Indah Semua
Tapi Berakhir Luka

Benar ku Mencintaimu
Tapi Tak Begini
Kau Khianati Hati Ini
Kau Curangi Aku

Kau Bilang Tak Pernah Bahagia
Selama Dengan Aku
itu Ucap Bibirmu

Kau Dustakan Semua
Yang Kita Bina
Kau Hancurkan Semua

SI TENANG

Sudah bertahun saya mengenalinya..sepanjang bekerja bersamanya..saya kagum dgn ketenangannya dalam bertindak walaupun sesekali pernah jua terlepas amarahnya namun pasti itu tidak lama..pasti dia cepat reda..itulah 'PAK SU' yang saya kenal..

Telah agak lama saya tak bertukar pandangan dengannya dek kerna masing2 sibuk dengan tugas yang menuntut pengorbanan masa, namun takdir tuhan mengatasi segalanya..beberapa minggu lepas saya sempat duduk semeja dengannya berborak mengenai sahabat2..
wah..menarik..saya teruja nak tau apa pandangannya..

"aku pelik la dgn kawan2 kita yang dah suka sama suka,tetiba dtg org lain berubah hati..cepat sgt berubah hati..mcm tukar baju.."kata pak su

wah..saya terkejut..pehal mamat nie emo semacam tetiba..

"biasalah tu..cinta dtg & pergi..mcm mana cinta itu dtg cinta tu blh pergi..jgn ko heran la"balas saya..

Dia lantas bertanya saya berapa tahun agaknya saya hidup..50 tahun barangkali fikir saya..campur tolak sekarang bila2 je boleh mati sbb makan mcm2 & sakit yang macam2..tapi kalu lebih dari 50tahun,da kira bonus utk kita..kalu kira2 ada lah 30 tahun lagi saya hidup insyaallah..

"habis tu,berbaloi ke kalu ikut hati kita semata nak buat anaiya kat orang dgn baki umur yang kita ada tu?banyak benda lagi yang kita kena buat dalam hidup nie..bukan fikir hati kita je..jumpa org laen berubah hati..yang lama tinggal macam tu je dgn hati yang terluka.."kata pak su

"yang ko emo nie pehal?ko nak cakap pe sebenarnya?"balas saya

Pasal hati katanya..jangan diikut sangat hati..masa sayang bukan main lagi..bila dah tak sayang macam2 cari alasan nak lepas dan buat tak tau pada yang lama walaupun orang tu masih sayang kita..hati kan milik masing2 kata saya..dah hati nak berubah nak buat macam mana..tak leh nak paksa..kita kan merdeka & ada pilihan sendiri nak buat keputusan..biarlah pak su..

"mudahnya ko cakap..kalu dua2 tak nak takpe la..kalu sorg nak sorg lg tak nak mcm mana?yang dulu dok bersama tetiba dtg org ketiga,berubah hati..siang malam pmpuan tu dok nanges pasal kekasih dia yang sorg tu..tapi tak dilayannya laki tu" pak su berbicara.

Dia memaksudkan seseorang..saya tau siapa perempuan itu..saya simpati padanya..beberapa lama dia menumpahkan kasih sayangnya,tup tap si dia beralih kasih..kasihan..simpati..namun apa daya kami mahu membantunya..

Katanya hati kita bukan milik kita..milik Tuhan..hatta diri kita sendiri milik Tuhan..jadi jangan pandai2 nak kata ikut hati kerana tu bukan kehendak hati tapi kerana kita pentingkan diri sendiri..utk diri kita tapi tak fikir sengsara orang lain..erti hidup pada memberi..bukan pada apa yang kita terima,teringat kata2 ustaz hasrizal dalam blognya..

"cinta tu datang & pergi..mcm ko kata..bila cinta dtg,ko dah berjanji setia..maknanya ko dah terikat dgnnya..dan sampai satu masa..cinta itu akan pergi..lumrahnya begitu..saat tu jangan ko cuba cari 'kambing hitam'..cari macam2 alasan utk ignore dgn org yang pernah ko barjanji setia..regain back the love..sebagaimana ia pergi ia blh dtg kembali..usaha la sikit sbagaimana ko usaha nak dapatkan cinta tu dulu..jangan cpt nak buat short term solution dgn cari org laen..anaiya org nnt..ingat segala budi baik dia melebihi buruk dia..lainlah kalau dua-dua dah tak nak" panjang huraiannya

Sebijik macam prinsip Seek first to understand than be understood..the 7 habit yang diperincikan oleh stephen convey..

"tapi kalau nak pilih jugak short term solution mcm mana?dah suka yang baru bukan leh lepas mudah2 dah..hati dah terikat..msti nak lupa yang lama2 cepat"..tanya saya

"he..kita hidup dalam sistem..hukum alam..sunnatullah tu tak pernah tak adil..what you give you get back" mudah,padat & terang jawapannya

lalu teringat akan kisah 'shbt tua' saya yang hampir begini kisahnya pada zaman mudanya..
dia alhamdullillah selamat di ijab kabul dgn pilihan hatinya..
namun setelah 2 dekad perkahwinannya,anaknya diserang penyakit 'gila' tidak semena2..
barulah diketahui kerabat isterinya mempunyai penyakit 'gila' yang berjangkit kepada anaknya pula..
aku redha..balasan untuk aku katanya..buat anaiya org dulu..angkuh dulu..astagfirullah..ngucap panjang saya..

Allah maha adil..terima kasih pak su ingatkan daku

ya ALLAH ampunkan dosa kami..jgn kau lalaikan hati kami dgn berbuat zalim pada insan lain ya ALLAH..tetapkanlah hati kami..ameen..

ADILKAH KITA???

Alhamdulillah..Syukur banyak2 kerna saya selamat pulang dari bermusafir di kota singa..Banyak yang secara tak langsung saya belajar kat sana..Sangat seronok kat sana sebab kak su & family baek2 saja & banyak tempat yang kami lawati kat sana..

By the way, entry saya kali nie nak bercakap pasal 'ADIL' sebab 2,3 menjak nie saya tergangu dengan masyaqah yang berkaitan 'ADIL'..jadi saya akan cuba buka balik beberapa kisah & pengalaman saya yang boleh kita sama2 jadikan kayu ukur & teladan yang baik untuk kita semua..yang baik kita ambil, yang buruk letak jauh2..bak kata sejarawan orang yang gagal belajar dari sejarah, akan mengulang sejarah tersebut..tak gitu..hehehe

Ala2,jawab exam mari kita definisikan apa itu ADIL.he.Mudahnya ADIL nie meletakkan sesuatu pada tempatnya.yang selalu kita silap ADIL tu maksudnya sama.haa..nie mmg silap la bagi saya.Misalnya org yang membunuh 5 kali kenalah dihukum bunuh,mati, dihidupkan dan dibunuh semula dan perlakuan nie mestilah diulang2 sampai 5 kali,barulah sama,tak gitu?tapi mustahil lah kita dapat buat begitu kn.jadi hukuman yang seadilnya buat dia dihukum bunuh sekali sahaja..lawan ADIL pulak ZALIM.jadi kalu tak ADIL,jawabnya ZALIM.

Sbnrnya, mmg susah nak jadi ADIL nie.sbb ramai2 org,nabi sendiri kata Umar la org yang paling ADIL dan dapat gelaran 'al-faruq' sbb dapat bezakan antara yang haq dan yang batil..tapi tu tak bermakna terlepas dah tanggungjawab kita dari berusaha nak jadi ADIL..kalu takleh nak 100% ADIL pun,mesti berusaha paling hampir ke arah tu..kalu tak kira kita dah berlaku zalim la..'wat nayo ko ore,tak baik,nabi tak suko,tuhe pun marah'..hehehe..

Kenapa timbul isu ADIL nie..mostly sbb sikap kita,saya sendiri tak terkecuali..suka buat perbandingan & cepat nak blame org lain bila sesuatu berlaku tanpa kita fikir banyak kali sebelum buat tindakan..'seek 1st to understand,then be understood'..mai kita pakat pegang prinsip nie :)

Misalnya waktu kembara ke Singapura tempoh hari, masalah utama yang berlaku ialah 'money exchange'..kenapa?sbb nilai mata wang Malaysia & Singapura berbeda..duit kita lagi rendah dari dollar singapura..secara kasarnya $1 Singapura sama dengan RM2.46 kita..gtu la lebih kurangnya..jadi bila kami tukar duit dollar,barang2 yang kami nak beli kat sana kami darab dgn RM2.46.tambah tolaknya, barang jadi mahal la kan.contohnya mee sup besanya harga $2 or $3 gtu..kalu darab RM2.46,tak ke harganya dah jadi RM4.92 ke RM7.38 semangkuk.mahal mahal,tak gitu?

Jadi boleh saya kata,mee di Singapura mahal la jika dikira dgn duit Malaysia kan?hehehe..sebenarnya bagi saya,tak ADIL la kita buat perbandingan begitu.tiap benda kat sana nak kita nilai dengan duit Malaysia.sepatutnya benda kat sana,kita nilai dengan mata wang sana..barulah kena pada tempatnya..perlu dingat juga,pendapatan penduduk Singapura 5 Kali lebih tinggi dari rakyat Malaysia..jadi boleh kira la berapa pendapatan mak ayah kita kalau mereka kerja kat sana..lagi2,ayah kak su sendiri cakap mee $2 tu murah..wah,amazed.he

Takpun, bila orang buat sesuatu tindakan, kita cepat2 nak nilai orang tanpa kita fikir dan beri pertimbangan sewajarnya pada tindakan org tu..kita kena ingat..tiap orang berbeza latar belakang,kepercayaan,pengalaman & dari mana mereka datang..jadi kita takleh nak samakan semua orang dgn kita.fikir dulu semasak2nya sebelum kita nak hukum or blame seseorang atas apa yang dia buat.misalnya, orang yang tak pernah di ajar tutup aurat olen keluarga dia,tak boleh kita nak marah terus or terus hukum dia tanpa kita ajar n bagitau dia tuntutan & hikmah tutup aurat nie.kita tak leh nak samakan dia dgn kita lagi2 kita mai dari IIUM yang memang dah wajib tutup aurat & diajar mengenai penghayatan ISLAM..takpun,kita tak leh juga nak samakan org yang hidupnya sentiasa ringan tulang tolong orang lain & sanggup bersusah-payah demi orang lain,pastu kita tengok dia rasa kesian tgk dia sebab dia penat tolong org lain.kita tak boleh nak marah2 dia & blame dia gtu je..tnya dia dulu n mintak justification & blajar dari dia nape dia berprinsip gtu..then baru la leh wat presumption pasal org tu..jgn nak terus blame org tu..tak adil utk dia & kita sendiri jugak..masing2 org ada pegangan & prinsip yang mereka junjung..

jadi pada akhirnya,sy nak nyatakan skali lagi mari kita sama2 check diri kita balik,tanya pada diri sendiri,ADILKAH KITA?? selama nie dalam tindakan kita..jangan kita nak cepat nak marah,benci,maki hamun org semata2 org tu tak ikut kehendak hati kita ataupun tak buat benda ikut kehendak diri kita..berlaku adil tuntutan buat kita semua termasuk diri saya sendiri..

so, SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND THEN BE UNDERSTOOD :)

sama2 kita menjunjung keadilan buat kita & orang2 tersayang

with that i rest my case...

p/s :

buat mereka yang mengerti...jangan cepat2 nak marah ea,cian kat org yang sayang kamu..dia tulus sayang kamu.. jgn lepaskan dia.. org tulus susah nak jumpa skrg :)

ayu-jgn cepat tensi,dia perlukan ayu dalam hidup dia sgt2..jgn penat jugak dalam memberi ye.owh dah ada mentor ea skrg?

BERTOLAK ANSUR ATAS KETERLANJURAN ORANG LAIN

Dr. ‘Aidh Abdullah Al-Qarni



“Jadilah kamu pemaaf dan suruhlah orang yang mengerjakan yang maaruf serta berpalinglah dari orang-orang yang bodoh”(Al-A’araf:199)

Adalah tidak wajar menjauhi saudara hanya kerana satu dua kebiasaan buruk yang tidak boleh diterima, sementara selebihnya baik. Dalam konteks ini satu atau dua kesalahan masih dimaafkan dan kesempurnaan adalah tingkatan yang sangat sukar dicapai. Al-Kindi seorang ahli falsafah telah berkata : “Bagaimana mungkin anda berharap satu adab tertentu dari kawan anda, sementara ia terdiri dari 4 tabiat. Jiwa sahaja yang merupakan sebahagian paling dekat dengan manusia dan merupakan pusat kawalan untuk memilih dan berkehendak, tidak boleh memberi kawalannya itu kepada orang yang memilikinya untuk melakukan semua kehendaknya, dan tidak boleh pula menyetujui semua yang dikehendakinya. Bagaimana pula ia hendak memenuhi jiwa orang lain?”

Memadailah jika anda bersedia menerima sebahagian besar dari tabiat saudara anda. Abu Darda r.a. berkata : “Mencela kawan itu lebih baik dari terpaksa kehilangan dirinya. Siapa orangnya yang boleh mendapat segalanya pada diri saudaranya?”

Seorang yang bijaksana telah berkata: “Adanya tuntutan terhadap keadilan kerana susahnya mendapat keadilan.”

Sementara yang lain berkata: “Sedangkan kita sendiri pun tidak boleh menerima kita sendiri, bagaimana mungkin kita boleh menerima orang lain?”

“Janganlah hanya kerana 1 aib tersembunyi atau dosa kecil yang ditutupi dengan kebaikannya yang lebih banyak, anda menjadi jauh dari seseorang yang pernah anda puji latar belakangnya, anda terima cara hidupnya, anda ketahui kemuliannya, dan anda ketahui kemampuan berfikirnya. Kerana anda tidak akan mendapat seorang pun yang sempurna tanpa satu aib atau dosa. Cubalah letakkan diri anda pada tempatnya, tidakkah anda terpaksa melihatnya dengan redha dan tidak menilainya dengan pandangan hawa nafsu. Apabila anda meletakkan diri anda pada tempatnya dan menilainya, ada sesuatu yang boleh membantu mendapat apa yang anda inginkan dan mendekatkan diri anda kepada orang yang membuat dosa.”

Oleh itu bermakna adanya kekurangan pada dirinya membuat anda menjauhinya dan berburuk sangka kepadanya, padahal anda tidak melihat sendiri dirinya melakukan persimpangan dan kemungkaran itu. Hendaklah semua kekurangan itu dialihkan ke dalam jiwa yang lapang dan hati yang damai. Sebab orang adakalanya leka untuk memerhatikan jiwanya, bahagian yang paling dekat dengan dirinya. Dan itu bukan bermakna memusuhinya dan bosan kepadanya.

Dikatakan dalam butir-butir hikmah: “ Jangan rosakkan hubunganmu dengan seorang kawan kerana persangkaan buruk padahal sebelumnya engkau yakin betul akan kebaikannya”

Al-Hasan bin Wahab telah berkata : “Di antara hak-hak mencintai adalah bersedia memaafkan kesalahan kawan dan menutup mata atas kekurangannya sekiranya ada”

“Maka maafkanlah (mereka) dengan cara yang baik” (al-hijr:85)

Menurut Ali Bin Abi Talib r.a. ia bermaksud redha tanpa mencela.

Engkau inginkan orang yang bersih yang tidak ada aib padanya, mana ada kayu yang mewangi tanpa mengeluarkan asap.

“Maka janganlah kamu memuji-muji dirimu (bahawa kamu suci bersih dari dosa). Dialah sahaja yang lebih mengetahui akan orang yang bertakwa”(an-najm:32)

p/s: Terima dia seadanya.bukan tugas kita menghukum sahabat kita. friendship is simple. It is all about understanding & forgiving. Kerana sahabat kita walau siapa pun dia, dia tetap manusia, bukan ‘angel’. Lihatlah dirinya sebagai seorang yang dambakan kemaafan setiap masa kerana sehebat mana pun dia,dia tetap manusia yang tak pernah terlepas dari salah & silap. Sampai satu masa, kita pun akan mendambakan kemaafan yang sama kerana kita juga manusia :)

Ya Allah..
Andai selama ini hatiku sentiasa menghukum sahabat2ku
Kau ampunkanlah daku yang tersilap ini
Maafkanlah aku
Sungguh aku syg dia tiap waktu
Ya Rabbi

Allahumma rahmataka arju fa la takilni ila nafsi tarfata ‘aynin wa aslih li sha’ni kullahu, la ilaha illa anta

Buat mereka yang mengerti..hehehe
Jangan sedih2..
Buat ayu – cepat2 cure.ahmad selalu doakan kamu :)
Buat farah – jangan nakal2. T nak kawen, jangan lupa ajak :p
Buat kakak2ku – jangan hukum dirimu dan dirinya.sunnahtullah tak pernah lari dari kita.silap hari bulan kita pula yang terhukum dek kerna silap kita.ingat2lah.lapangkan hati ye.jangan nanges da.tak comel.he.maafkanlah dia.hidup saling memerlukan.dia sgt perlukan kamu :)

Ada pape jgn lupa gtau ye.. I’m always here as long as I’m living.. I’ll be there

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

Banyak yang mahu berbicara tapi masih dibelenggu dengan exam yang tak berkesudahan..

Berbicara tanpa ketenangan bukan sesuatu yang baik

Bak berbicara ketika marah, rasionalnya hampir tiada dalam diri kita

Namun sedikit coretan untuk hari ini..

Tanda aras ukhwah ialah bersedia memberi untuk sahabat kita melebih diri kita..

Menyayanginya + susah untuk melihat dia dalam kesusahan

Mungkin kita melihat dunia dari perspektif yang berbeda

Raikan perbedaan kita jangan ditangisinya

Kerna kita sama tapi tak serupa

Sama2 kita renungkan :)

CATCHING MONKEYS

by Richard Quek


The way to catch a monkey is to use a box with a small
opening at the top- big enough for the monkey to slide
its hand inside. Inside the box are nuts to lure the
monkeys. The monkey will grab the nuts with its hand
and forms a fist. When the monkey tries to get its hand
out, the opening will be too small for the fist to come
out. The monkey has a choice to either let go of the
nuts in order to escape or to hang on to the nuts and
get captured. It is sad that the monkey will hold on to
the nuts and risks being caught.


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

The monkey was caught because of its greed. Most of us
behave like the monkey. We hold on to old things and
ideas that can no longer help us to succeed. We fear
the uncertainties the future may bring and so we refuse
to change. We are comfortable with where we are and
what we have, so we prefer to remain there. To move
forward in life we have to let go of the past and move
ahead in faith. We may even have to break traditions.
Let the dead bury the dead, just press on!

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the
other man to die."

PUREST OF PAIN

I'm sorry I didn't mean to call
but I couldn't fight it
I guess I was weak and couldn't even hide it
and so I surrender just to hear your voice
I know how many times I said I'm gonna to live with out you
and maybe someone else is standing there beside you
but there's something baby that you need to know
that deep inside me I feel like I'm dying
I have to see you it's all that I'm asking.
Vida, give me back my fantasies
the courage that I need to live
the air that I breathe
carino mio, my world becomes so empty
my day's are so cold and lonely
and each night I taste
the purest of pain.
I wish I could tell you I'm feeling better every day
that it didn't hurt me when you walked away
but to tell you the truth I can't find my way
and deep inside me I feel like I'm dying
I have to see you it's all that I'm asking.
Vida, give me back...

Son By Four

p/s : tetiba uden pasang lagu nie lak time ngah study trust..teringat cite mis tres hermanes..hahahaha..rindu cite tu..hehe :)

THE MAN WHO WILLED HIMSELF TO DIE

by Richard Quek

There was a man who worked for the railroad. One day as
he went into the freezer compartment to do his routine
work, the door accidentally closed and he found himself
trapped in the compartment. He shouted for help but no
one heard him since it was past midnight. He tried to
break down the door but he could not. As he lay in the
freezer compartment, he began to feel colder, and
colder. Then he began to feel weaker, and weaker, and
he wrote on the wall of the compartment, “I am feeling
colder, and colder; and I am getting weaker, and
weaker. I am dying, and this may be my last words”. In
the morning when the other workers opened up the
compartment they found him dead. The sad twist to the
above story is that the freezing apparatus in the
compartment had broke down a few days earlier. The poor
worker did not know about the damaged freezing
apparatus and in his mind the freezing apparatus was
working perfectly. He felt cold, got weaker and
literally willed himself to die.


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

Our sub-conscious mind can be cheated. The
sub-conscious mind can only accept and act on
information passed to it by the conscious mind. It has
no capacity to reject or decline any instructions or
information passed to it by the conscious mind. In the
case of the poor worker, he consciously thought that he
was getting colder, weaker and dying and the
sub-conscious mind accepted the above instructions and
affected his physical body. That was how he willed
himself to die.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery
you miss by going too fast, you also miss the sense of
where you are going and why."

MY DOG CAN WALK ON WATER

by Richard Quek

There was a hunter who came into the possession of a
special bird dog. The dog was the only one of its kind,
because it can walk on water. One day he invited a
friend to go hunting with him so that he could show off
his prized possession. After some time, they shot a few
ducks, which fell into the river. The man ordered his
dog to run and fetch the birds. The dog ran on water to
fetch the birds. The man was expecting a compliment
about the amazing dog, but did not receive it. Being
curious, he asked his friend if the friend had noticed
anything unusual about the dog. The friend replied,
“Yes, I did see something unusual about your dog. Your
dog can’t swim!”


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

More than 90% of the people that we face everyday are
negative. They choose to look at the hole in the middle
rather than the doughnut. Do not expect compliments or
encouragement from them. These are the people who
cannot pull you out of your present situation. They can
only push you down. So be aware of them, spend less
time with them, and do not let them steal your dreams
away from you.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible,
and suddenly you are doing the impossible."

MY DOG CAN WALK ON WATER

by Richard Quek

There was a hunter who came into the possession of a
special bird dog. The dog was the only one of its kind,
because it can walk on water. One day he invited a
friend to go hunting with him so that he could show off
his prized possession. After some time, they shot a few
ducks, which fell into the river. The man ordered his
dog to run and fetch the birds. The dog ran on water to
fetch the birds. The man was expecting a compliment
about the amazing dog, but did not receive it. Being
curious, he asked his friend if the friend had noticed
anything unusual about the dog. The friend replied,
“Yes, I did see something unusual about your dog. Your
dog can’t swim!”


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

More than 90% of the people that we face everyday are
negative. They choose to look at the hole in the middle
rather than the doughnut. Do not expect compliments or
encouragement from them. These are the people who
cannot pull you out of your present situation. They can
only push you down. So be aware of them, spend less
time with them, and do not let them steal your dreams
away from you.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible,
and suddenly you are doing the impossible."

QISTINA YANG KU CARI SELAMA INI

Hani Qistina Delaila - memang comel..hehehe

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

for my love one :-

apa yang terzahir itu belum tentu hakikat yang pasti..

aku jua punya perancangan untukmu..

mengertilah yang tersirat

bukan emosi dijadikan prioritas :)

THE SMART DRIVER

by Richard Quek

There was once a very famous motivational speaker. He
had a driver who followed him to all his speaking
engagements. The driver saw and heard the motivational
speaker spoke so often that he knew word for word what
the motivational speaker was going to say. He became an
expert too. The driver told the motivational speaker
that he could speak just as well. One day when the
motivational speaker was not feeling well, the driver
asked for a chance to speak in his place. The
motivational speaker agreed and the driver went on
stage confidently and gave the best motivational speech
of his life. The motivational speaker was shocked
because the driver spoke and moved exactly like him.
The driver got a standing ovation from the big audience
at the end of his speech. After the speech, it was
question time. One of the audiences asked a very
difficult question. The driver knew that there was no
way he could answer the question. He paused for a
moment and confidently told the audience that the
question was too easy for him so he will ask his driver
(the motivational speaker) to answer it instead.


SUCCESS PRINCIPLE

It is easy to be successful if you find a successful
person as a mentor to follow. To be successful you have
to be a good “copycat” and follow what successful
people do. Let them be your role model. Follow what
they do, what they believe in, how they move, how they
talk, and what they think about most of the time. If
they succeed in what they do, you can also have the
same degree of success if you role model them.
Successful people have developed a pattern of
excellence.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Never measure the height of a mountain until you have
reached the top. Then you will see how low it was."

LANGIT ILAHI

finally got this book.
tq kat akak lawa + baek hati kat mph yang susah2 carikan buku nie.he

alhamdulillah.saya akan terus sayang kamu :)

NO FREE LUNCH

by Richard Quek

Once upon a time there was a king who wanted to compile
the “wisdom of ages”. He commissioned his wise men
together and asked them to carry out the urgent task
immediately, and condensed it into a book. The wise men
began their research and after one year they returned
with a thick book on the “wisdom of ages”. The king was
pleased, but requested them to condensed it further.
The wise men later came back with one chapter, and yet
the king insisted that it was too long. Finally, they
condensed it into a sentence. When the king read it he
was very pleased and said, “This is truly the wisdom of
ages.” The sentence simply said, “There are no free
lunch” – and there “aren’t”.
SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

How true it is, “there are no f.ree lunch”. If you want
success then you will need to invest your time, effort,
money, etc. to get it. If you want good employees you
will have to pay them more, so that they will stay with
you. There is always a price to pay for everything! As
the saying goes, “if you pay peanuts, you will get
monkeys”. The Law of Compensation states that, “You
will receive according to the effort you put in!”

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more
there is in life to celebrate."

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

Aku mentari
Tapi tak menghangatkan mu
Aku pelangi
Tak memberi warna dihidupmu
Aku sang bulan
Tak menerangi malammu
Akulah bintang
Yang hilang ditelan kegelapan

p/s ; kui3..pape pun sy syg org yang sy syg..sgt2..no regret.he

DENGAR-DENGARLAH HATIKU

I did learn something when i went to Keramat this week...

The poster said this:-

What should you do when you have done a mistake?

a) Admit it

b) Learn from it

c) Don't repeat it

p/s : tak salah pun buat salah kn.yang penting be as usual.kalu dah lain lepas salah,next time org pun akan wat benda sama kat kita.yang penting jgn buat lagi.kita kan semua nak happy.rugi je sedey.semua syg kita :)

THE TRAP

by Richard Quek

There was a village that was attacked by wild boars.
Everyday the wild boars would enter the village to
rampage the whole village of their food. The villagers
tried various means to fight and chase away the wild
boars, but without much success.

One day a wise man approached the village headman to
offer his advice. He told the villagers that they will
have to follow all his advice and directions. Out of
desperation, the villagers agreed. The wise man told
the villagers to gather all the food from every
household and put it in the middle of a big empty
field. They followed his advice, and immediately they
saw hundreds of wild boars approaching the vicinity
where the food was placed. The wild boars were
apprehensive initially, but after a while they went for
the food. Once the wild boars had a taste of the food
they came back for the free food everyday. And everyday
the villagers would put more food in the field and the
wild boars would come to have their free meals. After a
while, the wise man asked the villagers to erect four
poles at the four-corners of the field.

The wild boars were too busy having their food that
they did not take notice of what was happening. After a
few weeks, the wild boars developed the habit of having
free food. The wise man then asked the villagers to put
fencing around the field, with a large gate through
which the wild boars can enter to have their food.
Finally once the fencing and the gate were completed
the villagers closed the gate and all the wild boars
were trapped inside the field. The wild boars were
finally defeated!

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

Habits are easily developed but difficult to get rid
of. The wild boars were trapped because out of their
greed, they developed the habit of having free food,
and without having to work for their food. They became
so comfortable, that they did not realize they were
being trapped. Most of us are like the wild boars
because we become too comfortable with our jobs and
businesses that we do not realize we are in one way or
another being “trapped”. We seek security rather than
freedom!

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Present-moment living, getting in touch with your
'now,' is at the heart of effective living. When you
think about it, there really is no other moment you can
live. Now is all there is, and the future is just
another present moment to live when it arrives. One
thing is certain, you cannot live it until it does
appear."

TWO HORSE POWER

by Richard Quek

There was once an old Indian who was poverty stricken.
But one day, he strike it big when oil was discovered
on his land. He became wealthy overnight and decided to
reward himself by buying a Cadillac touring car. In
those days, the Cadillac touring cars had two spare
tires on the back. The old Indian wanted to be
different and so he placed four spare tires at the back
of his car. He bought himself a beautiful suit and hat.
Everyday, with a cigar in his mouth he would drive into
the hot, dusty, little Oklahoma cowboy town nearby. He
wanted to show off his new car. He waved and spoke to
everyone that he passed by, on the right and on the
left. He sometimes turned all the way around to speak
to the folks. The strange thing is that he never ran
into anybody or over anybody. He never did hit anybody
or anything. Guess why? Directly in front of that big
beautiful car, there were two horses – pulling it!


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

There was nothing wrong with the car, but the old
Indian never learned how to start the car engine.
Inside the car were a hundred horses, but the old
Indian was only using two horses on the outside. Most
of us make the same mistake of looking outside of us
when we already have within us the necessary power to
move us forward. Scientists said that we only use about
10% to 15 % of our full potential. Therefore, it is up
to us to tap into our own potential and awaken the
sleeping giant within us.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"There are no hopeless situations; there are only
people who have grown hopeless about them."

p/s : mahanisayu,tq :)

THE JUNK DEALER

by Richard Quek

There was once a junk dealer who made his living by
picking up things other people had thrown away. He
lived in a run down house on his own. Everyday he would
go out early in the morning and return late at night.
He had no relations or friends, as he was a loner. One
day he fell sick and never recovered. He passed away
and since he had no close relatives, the police entered
his house to investigate. They found the whole house
littered with old furnishings and assorted items from
his past. However, to their surprise, the police
discovered more than $100,000 in old bills packed in
small boxes throughout the house.


SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

The question is why would a man with $100,000 cash in
his possession lived like a beggar, and chose to keep
his money stashed-away in old boxes, which were not
properly kept in a safe place?
He probably feared that he would lose his money someday
and therefore lived like a pauper. The truth of the
matter is that money is only an idea manifested on
paper with ink on it. It is only useful and of value
when it is being used. Money is not meant to be
hoarded, but rather to be used, enjoyed and circulated.
Money is neutral, and it is neither good nor bad.
Whether it is good or bad depends on how it is earned
and used.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"The truest greatness lies in being kind, the truest
wisdom in a happy mind."

THE MAGICIAN

by Richard Quek

Houdini was the greatest magician during his time. He
was also a fantastic locksmith, and boasted that he
could escape from any jail cell in the world in less
than one hour. A small town in the British Isles built
a new jail and issued Houdini the challenge. Houdini
loved challenges and there was a prize money offered,
so he accepted the challenge. When the big day
arrived, there was a large crowd present and the media
was also there to cover the special event. Houdini
confidently walked into the cell, and the door was
closed. He immediately took off his coat and went to
work. Hidden in his belt was a flexible, yet tough and
durable ten-inch piece of steel, which he used to work
on the lock. At the end of 30 minutes, his confidence
disappeared. At the end of an hour, he was soaked in
perspiration. After two hours, Houdini literally
collapsed against the door – which opened! The door had
never been locked, except in Houdini’s own mind.

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

The door had never been locked except in Houdini’s own
mind, which meant that the door was as firmly locked as
if a thousand locksmiths had put their best locks on
it. Houdini could have unlocked any physical locks, but
not the lock that was in his own mind. Just like
Houdini, our locks are in our own mind and prevent us
from getting out of our “jail”. Most of us are in a
“mental prison” and in order to break out, we need to
realize and admit it, and just give it a little push.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"You can end half your troubles immediately by no
longer permitting people to tell you what you want."

LOVE chooses YOU

If you find yourself in love with someone & that someone does not love you
be gentle to yourself
there is nothing wrong with you
but love just did not choose to rest in someone's heart

If you find someone in love with you & you cannot answer that love
feel honoured that love has come by and called on your door
but gently refuse the feeling you cannot returned
as love did not choose to settle in your heart

If you find yourself in love with someone & the love returns
it still can happen that love chooses to leave
don't try to reclaim it & don't assess any blame

Let it go
despite the pain
there is a reason & meaning to this

You cannot choose love by yourself
LOVE chooses You =)

sent by `uu`

THE SHOE SALESMAN

by Richard Quek

There was a successful company that manufactured and
sold shoes. One day the management had a meeting to
consider opening their market in Africa. They sent one
of their top salesman to Africa to make a study of the
market potential there. Upon arriving in Africa he
noticed that most of the Africans were bare-footed. He
faxed home the message, “ Bad news, nobody wears shoes
here!” And he followed up with the report that there is
no market for shoes in Africa. The management
considered it wise to have a second opinion, and
decided to send another salesman to Africa to assess
the market there. Upon arrival in Africa, the second
salesman was so excited that he quickly faxed a message
back, “Good news, nobody wears shoes here!” He hurried
home and reported to the management, “Gentlemen, we are
going to be “rich”, there is a big market in Africa ,
and what we need to do is to educate them on the
benefits and importance of wearing shoes.”

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

Life is how we perceive of it. There is a positive side
and a negative side to everything and every
circumstances. You can either look at a cup as “half
full” or “half empty”. You can look at the hole of the
doughnut or the doughnut itself. The choice is yours
and yours alone. But remember that the choices you make
will determine your success or failure.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always
try to be a little kinder than is necessary."

THIS IS FAITH

by Richard Quek

There was a tightrope walker, who was so good that he
could walk between two twenty stories building on a
tight rope with a balancing pole. Thousands of people
would watch him perform his breathtaking feat. After he
walked across the building he would have his assistant
sit on his shoulder and he would proceed to walk across
the building. Everybody were amazed and gave him a
thunderous applause. He asked them whether they
believed that he could do it again. The crowd said,
“Yes, we believe that you can!” After a while he asked
the crowd again, “Now, who wants to volunteer to get on
my shoulder?” With that the crowd became silent.

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

There is a difference between Believe and Faith. We can
believe what we see. In the above story, the crowd
believed in the tightrope walker because they saw him
perform the feat. But when he asked them “Who wants to
get on my shoulder?” everyone was silent. You see, the
crowd had Belief but they did not have Faith. This
story clearly illustrates the difference between belief
and having faith.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, and
don't put up with people that are reckless with yours."

WHOSE TIME IS RIGHT?

by Richard Quek

There was a man who works as a foreman at a factory.
Every morning on his way to work , he would pass a
particular shop selling watches. He will stop in front
of the shop and adjust the time on his wrist watch, and
will then proceed to work. He will do this everyday.
The watch shop owner became very curious and one day
stopped the man and asked him what he was doing. The
man said that he was the foreman of the factory and
everyday it was his duty to ring the bell to sound the
alarm at 5.00pm to indicate that it was time to stop
work for the day. He wanted to be accurate with the
time and therefore everyday he would look at the big
clock in the shop to adjust the time on his wrist
watch. The shop owner started laughing! He said,
“Everyday at 5.00pm when the factory bell sounds the
alarm, I would quickly adjust the time on my clock”.

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

It is important for us to realize that to be successful
we have to follow and copycat the right leaders. We
should role model leaders with good characters, values
and beliefs, otherwise we may find that we may reach
the “top of our ladder”, but only to realize that we
are on “top of the wrong ladder”.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Whatever the price, identify it now. What will you
have to go through to get where you want to be? ...
There is a price you can pay to be free of the
situation once and for all. It may be a fantastic price
or a tiny one - but there is a price."

12 RAMADHAN MENJENGAH LAGI

Masih belum terlambat kiranya untuk berbicara tentang ‘ia’. Dek terlalu fokus kepada ‘meeting’ yang tak berkesudahan, mid test land & PIL membuatkan aku agak terlambat untuk entri ini. First entri hasil karya sendiri buat mak di Pasir Pekan, ayah di Dungun & family di Pasir Pekan. Sunguh aku merindui kalian.



Masih terngiang di telingaku cerita ayah & mak pada 12 Ramadhan 1408H
“Kita letak nama Alias la untuk first anak kita ni. Macam mana?”
“Tak nak la. Nanti kawan-kawan dia panggil `liyah’. Tak comel bunyinya.” Hehe.



Sering aku terkenang & tersenyum sendiri tatkala dialog itu bermain di kepala.
Menjadi anak & cucu sulung keluarga membuat aku tak sepi dari perhatian mereka terutamanya bapa saudara & mak saudaraku. Namun rahmatnya, aku rasa sentiasa disayangi mereka semua. Hidup berjauhan hanya rindu sentiasa berteman buat mereka.



Pernah satu ketika, sewaktu mendapat tawaran ke ‘boarding school’, bersungguh Ayah Yi & Ayah Di memujuk supaya menerima tawaran tersebut.

“Mad kena tunjuk contoh yang baik kat adik sepupu & orang kampung kita”


Nasihat Ayah Di waktu itu. Bersemangatnya dia nak tengok anak saudaranya belajar kat ‘boarding school’ sampai bawak aku dinner kat hotel. Tak cukup dengan tu, offer lagi duit & handphone waktu tak ramai lagi sahabat-sahabat guna handphone waktu tu. Tapi dek kerana degil & hati keras tak mahu duduk asrama, tawaran dibiarkan berlalu pergi.hehe. tapi aku tetap sayang mereka semua. Tak terbuka pintu hati waktu itu tambah tak mahu berdikari lagi. Entahlah..



Sewaktu mendapat tawaran ke Matrik UIA, ayah orang yang paling gembira. Nak sangat lihat anaknya ambil ‘law’, cita-citanya padaku sejak kecil. Tapi time hantar aku kat PJ,mak orang yang paling sedih. Tak pernah berpisah lama denganku. Tapi aku pun sedih sama. Malu nangis depan orang ramai kat Mahallah Khadijah time tu, tapi slumber badak je aku nangis.hehe. Sentimental betul. Sekarang pun kalau sedih je, masih nangis dengan mak walaupun dah tua.hahaha. Anak mak la katakan. Mak lah yang paling memahami dari dulu sampai sekarang, sampai aku mimpi mak dah takde pun mak boleh tau.adus.hehe



Dan segala coretan tersebut sentiasa menggamit perasaanku. Tiap lipatan dalam kehidupanku pasti sentiasa dalam ingatanku. Jarang sekali aku melupainya.

Kini 12 Ramadhan, kau menyapa lagi.

Dengan harapan mak dan ayah yang makin berlipat ganda. Dengan harapan anakmu ini berjaya dalam hidupnya. Akan aku kotakan janji pada mereka untuk melihat aku berjaya. Akan aku gunakan kesempatan yang ada sebaiknya nak melihat ayah, mak, tok wea & mama tok datang ke ‘long call’ aku 2 tahun lagi insyaallah. Doakan aku kalian semua. Ameen



I miss you all a lot

p/s : thanks for 'kanak2 ribena' yang first wish and got the right gift from me.he
thanks anas for the pictures

DENGAR - DENGARLAH HATIKU

Nenek saya pernah cakap :

"Orang yang paling berbahagia tak selalu memiliki hal-hal terbaik,
mereka hanya berusaha menjadikan yang terbaik dari setiap hal yang hadir dalam hidup mereka" YEM

Dr Manmohan Singh

"Tuhan menanugerahkan kepadaku ketenangan bagi menerima perkara-perkara yang tidak dapat ku ubah, keberanian mengubah perkara-perkara yang dapat ku ubah dan kebajikan bagi mengetahui perbezaannya"

LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE

by Richard Quek

Norman Cousins is a man who laughed his way from
sickness to complete health. He had a terminal illness
which the doctors gave him a one-in-five-hundred chance
of making a full recovery. Norman Cousins refused to
accept the doctors opinion and decides to take matters
into his own hand. Laughter was one tool Cousins used
in a conscious effort to mobilize his will to live and
to succeed. He spend most of his time immersed in
films, television programs, and books that made him
laugh. He eventually recovered completely and wrote a
book entitled, “Anatomy of an Illness”.

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

The above story illustrates the importance of laughter,
smiling, having fun and focusing on the positive side
of things and circumstances. Our physiology can have a
big impact on our physical and mental well being and
also our emotion. Movement creates our emotion or state
of mind. If we approach our work with fun, then we are
not only going to enjoy it but we are surely going to
be more successful. We are also going to make more
friends and keep our body and mind healthy!

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can
envision the fact that you can do something, you can do
it – as long as you really believe one hundred
percent."

SHARPEN YOUR AXE

by Richard Quek

Allan, a woodcutter, was employed in a timber company
for ten years, yet he never got a raise. The company
later hired Richard to do the same job. However,
Richard got a raise within the first twelve months.
Allan was disappointed and decided to approach the
management of the company. He was told that his
production had never increased over the last ten years.
On the other hand Richard had cut more trees in the
period of one year. The company however promised to
give Allan a raise if his production goes up. He went
back to work and tried harder but unfortunately his
result did not improve. One day he happened to meet
Richard and decided to get Richard’s advice. Richard
told Allan that after he cut down a tree, he would take
a short break to sharpen his axe. Allan suddenly
realized that he was too busy cutting down trees that
he failed to take a break to sharpen his axe.

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

It is important to take a break from the pressure of
work to go on a holiday once in a while. Have a break
to take care of your physical body and your precious
mind. Spend some time on self-development to improve
yourself and to renew your mind. There are plenty of
seminars, books, tapes and materials in the market.
Make it a habit to search for good books to read, and
associate with people who are successful and with the
same wave length and you will surely see success.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

"Obstacles can't stop you. Problems can't stop you.
Most of all, other people can't stop you. Only you can
stop you."